Sounds like an interesting read. I agree that her advice is a little unnerving. Her advice of being some type of "mystery" to your mate and hiding your real self sounds like a one way ticket to a future divorce. So the woman should dumb down her real personality traits and make the man feel like he's the most interesting one in the relationship? I mean yeah everyone needs an ego boost every now and then but sounds like she's promoting women to be some type of Stepford Wife.Jeez. So basically he'd be falling in love with an illusion that he'll eventually see through once they get married, live together and do all those other "married couple" things. I don't know sounds kind of backwards to me!

-D.G