Gifting Your Guy: What to Buy When You Haven't Hit the Three Month Mark Yet

You've got a new guy, you're totally into him, and every time you go to the mall, you see something you know he'd absolutely love. But wait - before you whip out that debit card and start buying out the place, take care: If you haven't put a label on your relationship yet, you can't be sure if exchanging gifts is even on his holiday wishlist.

First things first: Don't make a big deal out of it. Yes, you're totally beyond the "like" phase, but he might not be. In fact, a big expensive gift might freak him out send him running for the hills if you're not careful. Stressed out over the implications? Here's some tips and suggestions on how to make your first Christmas together happy, merry, and bright.

Ground Rules

Don't Discuss It: It's not about whether or not he's buying you a gift -- it's about you wanting to do something nice and sweet for your honey. Bringing it up might stress him out, so keep it to yourself and don't build up any expectations in your head that he's going to get you anything in return. Honestly, at this point in your relationship it's complicated. Try to keep it as simple as possible by not overthinking it.

Set a Budget: Don't give in and go overboard. Your max spending limit should be no more than $30 tops. Skip the sentimental stuff, too. Practical and fun should be your present-buying mantra.

Present it in a Low-Key Way: If he decides not to get you anything, it's going to be really awkward if you plan this whole big evening around exchanging gifts. The easiest way to avoid hurt feelings and pre-holiday drama is to just slip it into his mailbox, leave it in his dorm room, or have it shipped to his home address instead. This way, it's clear you don't expect him to immediately reciprocate in some way, but it's a fun surprise that he totally won't be expecting.

Gift Suggestions

Baked Goods: What guy doesn't love homemade chocolate chip cookies, cupcakes, or his favorite meal cooked from scratch? Sure, this crosses into the "thoughtful" line, but not in a way that suggests you're trying to rush him to the "next level."

Gift Certificates: Starbucks, iTunes, or a gift certificate to his favorite store or restaurant are definitely practical, but really demonstrate you're keyed into his favorite things. You can even include a card that says his gift also comes with one free coffee/shopping buddy (i.e. you) so your present becomes a shared activity you both can enjoy together.

Movie or Concert Tickets: Is there a movie he's been dying to see or a local band you both love? Gift him with a night on a the town courtesy of yours truly. Just be careful with your selection. If the event is more than a month away, it could suggest to him that you're in it for the long haul, whereas he could be just taking it day-by-day and not really putting too much thought into the idea of you and he officially being a "we."